We are infertile, you and I, |
With broken hearts and few choices left to try |
We have been the patient etherised upon a table; |
We have travelled, through certain half-deserted dreams, |
Of devastating negatives |
Of restless nights and fading positives |
And hopeful starts with grating missives: |
Conversations that follow like a tedious argument |
Of increasingly tragic intent |
To lead us to an overwhelming decision … |
We do not need to ask, “What is it?” |
We just go and make our visit. |
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In the room the scientists come and go |
Talking of blastocysts, we know. |
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And indeed there will be time |
For the fears and hopes that slide along the years, |
Inflicting despair and determination in doses; |
There will be time, there will be time |
To prepare a treatment to match the bloods and scans; |
There will be time to trigger and time to plan, |
And time for all the injections and alarms of maybe |
That allow yet another hope to penetrate our heart; |
Time for you and time for me, |
And time yet for a hundred indecisions, |
And for a hundred visions and revisions, |
Before the taking of a dose or three. |
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In the room the nurses come and go |
Talking of HCG, we know. |
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And indeed there will be time |
To wonder, “Do we dare?” and, “Do we care?” |
Time to turn back and cry in despair, |
With a fear born of the possibility so rare — |
[They will say: “It’s real, the journey has now begun”] |
Our disbelief, followed swiftly by a mood so glum, |
Now what do we do, that we have a race to run— |
[They will say: “Just be happy, relax!”] |
Do we dare |
Disturb this universe? |
That we have known so well |
For results and positives that could so easily reverse. |
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For we have known them all already, known them all:— |
Have known the evenings, mornings, afternoons, |
We have measured out our cycles with syringe platoons; |
We might be lucky and hear those fateful words |
Beneath the thumping heartbeat sweating in our phone. |
But can a positive ever heal this wound? |
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Because we are infertile, you and I, |
A growing belly might stem the flow, |
But our heart will always hold this stone. |
That success will only partially hold |
Cradled safe in the hand of hope. |